substance
i went on a date with a guy who claimed he liked me for a while a week ago. i can't even explain how terrible the date was. let's just say, i warned my friends to stand by and keep their cellphones close by so they can pick me up just in case i am ready to desert the asshole and and leave him there - alone. yes, it was that bad!
it's not worth talking about him so i will not discuss how disgusted i am and disappointed in him. besides, that will even boost his ego so i am going to refrain from giving him his own free publicity. i am looking at it in the bright side, as mamu stated, "it was meant to be NOT TO BE."
in that particular date, he attempted to touch based sensitive issues that irked me. he said he didn't want kids ( i love kids!), he mentioned that women who are over 25 should marry now because "they are not like men...who are biologically capable" ( i beg todisagree, i worked in the medical field and i am fully aware of my patients in their 40's having babies - besides, there's always invitro LOL )and even worse, he said he'll take me to a club next time so "i can lose weight" (for his information, it took me a while to embrace and love myself and i am not going to change because some jerk prefers an anorexic b*tch).
and so i asked him while he busted out with negative remarks, why was he in a date with me again? he uttered he always thought i was someone he liked because i'm fun to be with, always never a dull moment, that he knew me, his family knew me, his friends knew me and they told him i'm a great catch....blah-blah-blah. it ws too late for me to be impress. he made such damaging statements earlier thatwhat ever he said, it's all bull, of course.
i left that date...and never turned back. i never even called him. when he attempted to call me, i texted him back and told that we're two different individuals that will never work out. so i beg him to just leave me alone.
as it was once said, sometimes, we have to be careful to judge the book by its cover. the cover might be attractive and intriguing but that book better have something good to offer inside. otherwise, it's just another boring book feasting on dust on a shelf.
i might not be a beautiful eyecatching cover of a book...but darn it, when you open this book called ME, you'll discover that i might be simply plain from the outside but in the inside, i am a book filled with SUBSTANCE.
SUBSTANCE
Saturday, March 31, 2007
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