Tuesday, July 24, 2001
clear thoughts

yesterday, my best friend maffi and frank talked on the phone regarding an issue that concerns maff. gosh, listening to frank explain to maffi men's point of view regarding "issues," made me rethink why i said "yes" to frank couple days ago. yeah, there's a lot of people around me who are wonderful and frank is definitely one of them. but there's more to him than that. he's so honest about his feelings for me, about the mistakes he made in the past, and more. he's also caring and loving...and VERY understanding, witty, and knowledgeable. yes, he has his own flaws that i saw already but his charms are overpowering the negativities i see in him. i wanted to give him a hug because he showed how concerned he was to my bestfriend.

in addition to that, i opened up my thoughts regardign the previous entry. things like i am so scared. but he assured me he felt the same way. and that we were in the same level. he said he cares for me so much that he would want this bond to work. who wouldn't? there's nothing i wanted so much but to be loved by someone i will loved back. and i see this potential with frank but i am so scared. but he assured me he will take care of me....no matter what decision i make regarding him...and us.

in fairness to frank, i did tell him about ron ( the other "wonderful" guy...heheh). but i secured him with the surity that i am NOT with anyone. and that if there's one man in this world i am giving my full attention to, it was him. it was an amazing conversation. one of the best conversations with frank. i am just glad he took this load off my chest. it looks like i am right after my decision after all. but there's more to come and this circumstances will judge if this bond will blossom into love.

thanks sweetie, for being understanding. miss you. and pormise, i will take care of you.

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MY SILENT REVERIES
writing is my passion. i created silent reveries years ago to vent out things i could not tell the world. it was my private, modern tech approach to scribbling my thoughts and emotions in a journal. in here, i can feely be who i am. i could cry my woes, i can love freely, i can grieve over a broken heart, i can celebrate the joys in my heart, i can rejoice with my accomplishments, i can tell stories of remarkable friendships and unforgettable connections i made with extraordinary people SECRETLY AND SILENTLY without worrying people might judge me. i hid under the name PINAY FREESTYLE.

but eventually, some people gained access to my secret place. so i opened my doors to them in the purpose that i could inspire them: to be better versions of themselves and to share themselves to the world. slowly, i embraced my readers as a part of my life. i welcomed the strange idea that my untold life stories and unconcealed revelations could be of help to others, to love and accept themselves as they are. and i, i came out from the animosity. i eventually became just the regular LEN - the nickname my family & friends call me.

i developed stories of love, of letting go, of falling in love all over again. i made great friendships. but if there's one thing i was particularly proud of, it was my undenying love for the LORD. i wrote and made soul searching, heart wrenching entries i entitled, "SPIRITUAL REVERIES" which you will find many here. it was my productive way to heal myself from twinge and while i am at it, i could also mend others spirits along the way and bring them back up to par with their faith and relationships with God. it has not stop there. it's still a constant journey.

and so, for as long as i can, i vowed to tell my memorable reflections,i have unmasked the hidden me. and the seeking and searching of life's meaning and purpose is not over. LIFE is a long road of discovering. and i still yet to discover many wonders of this world and satisfy my unending curiosity. but be warned. you can either love me or hate me. but i don't care. this is me: sripped and bare as i can be.

so i invite you into my chaotic unperfect world. join me in my whirlwind new travels of diving into the unknowns. let me share my life with you all over again. come in, as i tell you my SILENT REVERIES.

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len


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