Sunday, April 08, 2001
SILENCE

Can you believe eversince Glenn came home from the Philippines, we haven't even attempted to talk to each other? Why? Truthfully, I have no idea. Right now, it's just silence.

On my part, it's pride. Firstly, because of the fact, that he is the man and it's suppose to be his job to call me. Secondly, he is the one who has some explaining to do regarding the fact that he told me " i don't what i feel for you " and then all the sudden, he called me overseas from PI and told me, " I miss you.." Now what in the heck was that? Thirdly, I am assuming this is his way of telling me that "he needs space," or " I found someone new," or "It's really completely over," or "I don't want anything to do with you." Any of these might be valid. Glenn used this same pattern of behavior when he said he had a "fling" with "Dee." He was avoiding me and he wasn't calling me. Then he met this girl from hi last vacation in Philippines, he chose not to call me. And when he finally did, it was because he was so afraid of me. So I am thinking, it is probably the same reason why he is not calling me again.

On Glenn's side, I really don't know. Perhaps, it's also pride. He's expecting me to call him. So I guess, it's just a waiting game. Perhaps, it can also be what I just said, he's afraid to call me because he might hurt me of he says "he found someone new." ( But I wouldn't be surprise if he did.) Perhaps, this is also his way of telling me me "there's no cahnce for us...anymore."

Ahhhh...I don't know. I just know this immense silence and waiting is killing me. I attempted to crankcall him and he was there. It's him I know because he has this distinctive rusty voice and plus, it's only him and his mom who live in their house. I want to know what he is up to this time. I yearn to find out answers to my confusion and us.

Is this his way of telling me "we're history?" That we are now a "close book?" This silence, does it mean he's pushing me away? Does it mean, it's really really over between us? That's how he ended things with Reiko before I met him. They, too, ended in silence. So, is this silence dictating to me, that this is "good bye" for Glenn and I, too? Is this silence suppose to help me think things over? Well, it's not working. It'a actually making things worse for me right now and I am not feelign any better.

I don't know. I wish I know the answer.

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MY SILENT REVERIES
writing is my passion. i created silent reveries years ago to vent out things i could not tell the world. it was my private, modern tech approach to scribbling my thoughts and emotions in a journal. in here, i can feely be who i am. i could cry my woes, i can love freely, i can grieve over a broken heart, i can celebrate the joys in my heart, i can rejoice with my accomplishments, i can tell stories of remarkable friendships and unforgettable connections i made with extraordinary people SECRETLY AND SILENTLY without worrying people might judge me. i hid under the name PINAY FREESTYLE.

but eventually, some people gained access to my secret place. so i opened my doors to them in the purpose that i could inspire them: to be better versions of themselves and to share themselves to the world. slowly, i embraced my readers as a part of my life. i welcomed the strange idea that my untold life stories and unconcealed revelations could be of help to others, to love and accept themselves as they are. and i, i came out from the animosity. i eventually became just the regular LEN - the nickname my family & friends call me.

i developed stories of love, of letting go, of falling in love all over again. i made great friendships. but if there's one thing i was particularly proud of, it was my undenying love for the LORD. i wrote and made soul searching, heart wrenching entries i entitled, "SPIRITUAL REVERIES" which you will find many here. it was my productive way to heal myself from twinge and while i am at it, i could also mend others spirits along the way and bring them back up to par with their faith and relationships with God. it has not stop there. it's still a constant journey.

and so, for as long as i can, i vowed to tell my memorable reflections,i have unmasked the hidden me. and the seeking and searching of life's meaning and purpose is not over. LIFE is a long road of discovering. and i still yet to discover many wonders of this world and satisfy my unending curiosity. but be warned. you can either love me or hate me. but i don't care. this is me: sripped and bare as i can be.

so i invite you into my chaotic unperfect world. join me in my whirlwind new travels of diving into the unknowns. let me share my life with you all over again. come in, as i tell you my SILENT REVERIES.

love,
len


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