Saturday, January 19, 2002
fearful...

paul says, "what's stopping you from chillin't it with me? i'm not going to kill yah. i juat want to spend time with you...just hang around. maybe watch a movie, or let's go shopping, or let's go to the beach...i just don't get it, len. every time your friends are there, youmake time for them but if it's me, you always have an excuse to make. it's not fair..."

eh. if you only knew.....life is never fair. and it will never be.

i loved glenn with all my heart. i sacrificed four long years. i forgave him at the times he cheated and gave him too many second chances. and one summer, he had an opporunity to go on vacation and he screwed around, had a "one wild night with a girl he barely met, who was also from the same town as his family was, got her pregnant, and so i broke i off with him and now, he is getting married because they have a baby together.

and "vampz" who supposedly loved me and as soon as i turned my back and he was upto someone "sexier". and vince, whom i thought i loved and i still care about and for no apparent reason, he was nowhere to be found. and ziggy, who kept goign back to me because he knew i will always be there for him but no, i decided, i am not tolerating there. and now, there's that asshole ron, (my korean ex), who promised me " whatever happens, my love was real and true" faded away like a bubble.

and he tells me " i'm not fair?"

you have no idea what i've been through. you don't know the cheating guys who broke my heart over and over again. you do not understand the pain that stabbed me and disabled me to love again or even like anyone. you were not there those nights i wanted to sleep but i couldn't because i was haunted with tears. how i go on my everyday life not knowign what to do because i am lost. i have been abandoned and used, and played like a fool.

i am not going to be that fool again. i am not going to let these guys step on me. that is the reason why i avoided your dates. i don't know why you keep asking me. you hined several times though. do you understand where i am coming from? i wanted to be cautious. i must not make the same mistakes i made. right now, i am not ready to go on dates with someone i do not completely know yet.

ahh. don't you get it? i'm just....i'm just....

i'm just...

scared.

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MY SILENT REVERIES
writing is my passion. i created silent reveries years ago to vent out things i could not tell the world. it was my private, modern tech approach to scribbling my thoughts and emotions in a journal. in here, i can feely be who i am. i could cry my woes, i can love freely, i can grieve over a broken heart, i can celebrate the joys in my heart, i can rejoice with my accomplishments, i can tell stories of remarkable friendships and unforgettable connections i made with extraordinary people SECRETLY AND SILENTLY without worrying people might judge me. i hid under the name PINAY FREESTYLE.

but eventually, some people gained access to my secret place. so i opened my doors to them in the purpose that i could inspire them: to be better versions of themselves and to share themselves to the world. slowly, i embraced my readers as a part of my life. i welcomed the strange idea that my untold life stories and unconcealed revelations could be of help to others, to love and accept themselves as they are. and i, i came out from the animosity. i eventually became just the regular LEN - the nickname my family & friends call me.

i developed stories of love, of letting go, of falling in love all over again. i made great friendships. but if there's one thing i was particularly proud of, it was my undenying love for the LORD. i wrote and made soul searching, heart wrenching entries i entitled, "SPIRITUAL REVERIES" which you will find many here. it was my productive way to heal myself from twinge and while i am at it, i could also mend others spirits along the way and bring them back up to par with their faith and relationships with God. it has not stop there. it's still a constant journey.

and so, for as long as i can, i vowed to tell my memorable reflections,i have unmasked the hidden me. and the seeking and searching of life's meaning and purpose is not over. LIFE is a long road of discovering. and i still yet to discover many wonders of this world and satisfy my unending curiosity. but be warned. you can either love me or hate me. but i don't care. this is me: sripped and bare as i can be.

so i invite you into my chaotic unperfect world. join me in my whirlwind new travels of diving into the unknowns. let me share my life with you all over again. come in, as i tell you my SILENT REVERIES.

love,
len


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