Sunday, October 21, 2001
What do guys like??? Waht do girls like???
(adapted from chicken soup for the soul series)

guys like......

...girls who takegood care of themselves. not model beauty but clean hair, smelling good, exercising.

... girls WHO HAVE A LIFE! they like it when you are NOT always available. they like to know that if they likeyou, you aren't going to need them all the time.

...girls who have a sense of humor.

...girls who DON'T TRY TOO HARD. trying too hard means the girl is desperate. they want to think that they lucked out by getting the girl.

...girls who LISTEN to them and find them interesting. not the ones that are "faking."

...girls who have FUN with their girlfriends. they want to know that if they are going to watch the game on saturday night, the girls isn't going to fall apart. they likegirls who can have a good time WITHOUT them.

...girls who SINCERELYLIKES THEM. not the girls who says, " i want a boyfriend" but the girls who says, "i'm looking forward to meeting a guy i like who likes me back."

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girls like......

...guys who adore them.

...guys who are strong. guys who are confident and give them the feeling that they are safe when they are around them.

...guys who aren't afraid to say weet things to them. "you looks so pretty tonight," stuff like that,

...guys who don't shy away from them when their buddies are around.

...guys who know how to have fun when they are with a girl ( besides physical).

...guys who make them feel special.

...guys who care about their feelings and who aren't afraid to talk abput "emotional" stuff.

...guys who are thoughtful, who call just to say, "hi,""good night," or to see how they are doing.

...guys who are generous. not just with money, but in other ways too. they like gusy who wil lgo out of their way to make them feel comfortable.

...guys who take care of themselves---nice clothes, clean hair. they love a guy who SMELLS GOOD.

...guys who do little things like hold their hand softly, move their hair away from their face for them, or remember the day they first kiss.




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writing is my passion. i created silent reveries years ago to vent out things i could not tell the world. it was my private, modern tech approach to scribbling my thoughts and emotions in a journal. in here, i can feely be who i am. i could cry my woes, i can love freely, i can grieve over a broken heart, i can celebrate the joys in my heart, i can rejoice with my accomplishments, i can tell stories of remarkable friendships and unforgettable connections i made with extraordinary people SECRETLY AND SILENTLY without worrying people might judge me. i hid under the name PINAY FREESTYLE.

but eventually, some people gained access to my secret place. so i opened my doors to them in the purpose that i could inspire them: to be better versions of themselves and to share themselves to the world. slowly, i embraced my readers as a part of my life. i welcomed the strange idea that my untold life stories and unconcealed revelations could be of help to others, to love and accept themselves as they are. and i, i came out from the animosity. i eventually became just the regular LEN - the nickname my family & friends call me.

i developed stories of love, of letting go, of falling in love all over again. i made great friendships. but if there's one thing i was particularly proud of, it was my undenying love for the LORD. i wrote and made soul searching, heart wrenching entries i entitled, "SPIRITUAL REVERIES" which you will find many here. it was my productive way to heal myself from twinge and while i am at it, i could also mend others spirits along the way and bring them back up to par with their faith and relationships with God. it has not stop there. it's still a constant journey.

and so, for as long as i can, i vowed to tell my memorable reflections,i have unmasked the hidden me. and the seeking and searching of life's meaning and purpose is not over. LIFE is a long road of discovering. and i still yet to discover many wonders of this world and satisfy my unending curiosity. but be warned. you can either love me or hate me. but i don't care. this is me: sripped and bare as i can be.

so i invite you into my chaotic unperfect world. join me in my whirlwind new travels of diving into the unknowns. let me share my life with you all over again. come in, as i tell you my SILENT REVERIES.

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