Saturday, August 25, 2001
i contemplate....

it's 3 am. and the thought of sleep is not invading my mind. i was talking to ron ( R ) earlier and he was so sleepy. i suggested that i should hang up and he should get some sleep and all he kept saying, " please, don't hang up on me until i am sleeping." and he mumbled some other phrases but the only part of it i understood was, " hey...len...i love you." and then he slept on me.

i wrote him a love letter the other day while i was at work. i told him how much i felt the same way but the thought of love is scaring me. but i did assure him that if he wanted to know what i felt for him, i did felt the same for him and i loved him the same way. but we have things ot attend on right now. and we must wait for the perfect time for us to be together. for the mean time, we are each other's backbones. and we are getting closer, we are discovering more about each other , and our emotions are getting intense and stronger as each day approaches.

i cried to him today. i couldn't explain what my feelings are for him. there are no sufficient words. i encountered the same attachment to my exes in the past. but i never felt his sincerity. i am not used to being pampered. no one in my pasts have ever asked " what is your symptoms right now?" and suggested, " drink your hot tea," "make sure you eat," "don't work too much." i was never used being "babied." i am always the one doing the babying.

and his amazingness is putting me on this awkward awe because i do not exactly know how to react. he knows that i care for him deeply. and i would do anything and give up everything for him just as long as he is happy. his concern for me placed me in a comfort zone i have never been before. once, i hoped for peacefulness and with ron, i feel that peace. i mean, that security that i know FOR SURE that he will take very good care of me.

but more has yet to come between me and ron. and there will be tough times and not so happy moments, but the important thing is we are sharing the load together. ron is giving me this capability to believe in myself and to be stronger especially through the tough times. and i, on the other hand, gives him motivation. together, we compliment each other. together, we comply with each other's needs. together, we work with each other strengths and weaknesses. yes, we do argue and disagree, but together, we manage to patch up and recognize our differences. after all, these are the qualities that sets both of us apart from each other.

ron knows i care for him and how he makes me happy. it's just he has no clue how much he mean to me and how much he adds brightness to my days. if it was up to me, i would not want this sparkles to cease. someday, i will give him access to this blog. maybe then during those times, he will know why my smiles are different now a days...it is because he made me smile this way.


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MY SILENT REVERIES
writing is my passion. i created silent reveries years ago to vent out things i could not tell the world. it was my private, modern tech approach to scribbling my thoughts and emotions in a journal. in here, i can feely be who i am. i could cry my woes, i can love freely, i can grieve over a broken heart, i can celebrate the joys in my heart, i can rejoice with my accomplishments, i can tell stories of remarkable friendships and unforgettable connections i made with extraordinary people SECRETLY AND SILENTLY without worrying people might judge me. i hid under the name PINAY FREESTYLE.

but eventually, some people gained access to my secret place. so i opened my doors to them in the purpose that i could inspire them: to be better versions of themselves and to share themselves to the world. slowly, i embraced my readers as a part of my life. i welcomed the strange idea that my untold life stories and unconcealed revelations could be of help to others, to love and accept themselves as they are. and i, i came out from the animosity. i eventually became just the regular LEN - the nickname my family & friends call me.

i developed stories of love, of letting go, of falling in love all over again. i made great friendships. but if there's one thing i was particularly proud of, it was my undenying love for the LORD. i wrote and made soul searching, heart wrenching entries i entitled, "SPIRITUAL REVERIES" which you will find many here. it was my productive way to heal myself from twinge and while i am at it, i could also mend others spirits along the way and bring them back up to par with their faith and relationships with God. it has not stop there. it's still a constant journey.

and so, for as long as i can, i vowed to tell my memorable reflections,i have unmasked the hidden me. and the seeking and searching of life's meaning and purpose is not over. LIFE is a long road of discovering. and i still yet to discover many wonders of this world and satisfy my unending curiosity. but be warned. you can either love me or hate me. but i don't care. this is me: sripped and bare as i can be.

so i invite you into my chaotic unperfect world. join me in my whirlwind new travels of diving into the unknowns. let me share my life with you all over again. come in, as i tell you my SILENT REVERIES.

love,
len


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"I want to have a personal light, the glow of oneself that comes from sheer willpower, the light of someone who has made important sacrifices in the name of things I think are important."

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my name is len. people always tend to judge me without discovering who i really am. i might look intimidating, a typical shop girl, and i act like a crazy party girl on the weekend. but i actually have brains. and i own an even bigger heart. the truth is, beyond the louis vuitton bags, beyond the lavish parties, the excessive passion to travel and the desire to get to know the world, if you got to know the REAL ME, i am really just a simple girl. my only desire is to be loved for who i am.

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